Out of Office

Hello Friend,

Thanks for stopping by! I’m on a boat and don’t have the means to check in, though I’m certainly glad you are here.

Since you are here, I want to turn the mic over to you. Do you have any questions for me? The floor is yours.

I’ll be back to answer in mid-December.

Talk soon.


p.s. Did you know that some people don’t pick up coins off the ground because “it’s not worth the germs!” I’ve never heard of such a thing. More for me, I guess!


Celebrating Improved Habits

Today I want to talk about a big part of my life that doesn’t get much of the spotlight around here.

My darling, love of my life, Hubs.

Sadly, all I typically talk about are his horrible feet and how much they are costing us. Not the best legacy. 😦 Time to change that.

Hubs and I met nearly 7 years ago. The last 7 years have been an excellent adventure and I love the crap out of him. With that said, my darling Hubs has always been the spender in this relationship. Since this is a money blog, I wanted to share a major shift in my home that occurred recently.

I started this blog nearly 2 years ago to chronicle my journey of paying off my student loans. This is the only real debt I’ve ever taken on. I’ve never had credit card debt and while I technically have a car loan right now, the interest rate is effectively a wash against my savings account interest. For as long as I can remember, I’ve always been cost conscious and a saver. Hubs has a different story. This is his story.

Growing up, Hubs was a spender. He had a lot of credit cards and a lot of credit card debt. Most of this debt was incurred in his quest to collect ’em all. Yes, Hubs is a collector, a collector of many things. In addition to being a collector, Hubs is also a man of convenience.  With food, he has often said, “Why should we eat at home? It takes time to make it, and time to clean it up. With all that time, we could go out to eat and be on our way.”

Limiting his collecting and increasing his inconvenience have been my greatest challenges as a frugal wife. These challenges are what I am so proudly updating today.

It’s time for an update because he’s made major progress. Maybe not even progress. Progress feels like incomplete recognition of what he’s done, he’s made major changes. Here are some of his highlights.

He started his financial transformation before I met him. He had some serious credit card debt (like $35,000!) and he faced it head on. He paid all of it off a few months before I met him.

Since he’s been in my life, my collector started selling his collection, with patience and pride. He’s realized that all of those collections are only worth what someone will pay for them. He’s also realized that if he is not enjoying them, he should sell them to someone who will enjoy them… or at least collect them. It’s been a slow mindset shift, but dollars in a bank account are now more prized than a collectable on a shelf.

My convenient man is learning the power of a little extra effort. He’s seeing our food bills and how they plummet dramatically when we eat at home. He’s also realizing that his wife is a darn good cook and can re-create most of what he wants from the restaurants at home (with the exception of Chipotle. We love you Chipotle. We can’t quit you.) Now, eating out is a treat not the norm.

My spender is holding on to the power of saving and investing. We recently had a conversation about adjusting our savings so we could shovel more money into the house fund, temporarily lowering our 401k contributions. He emphatically told me No. He won’t change his hearty 401k contribution. I was told the only direction his contribution is going is up.

My spender is also finding new ways to save or track our expenses. He sees value in places I may have missed and he’s generous where it matters. He challenges my frugality in the best possible ways and for that I am grateful.

In sum, it’s been a slow road but I am over the moon to report that I have a frugal husband.

Hubs :) In the Great Barrier Reef

Hubs 🙂 In the Great Barrier Reef during our Honeymoon

Have you seen changes in your spouse as you challenge your own financial responsibility?

Limited Purpose FSA: A cautionary tale.

Hello boys and girls.

Today I’m going to tell you a story. It’s a true story. The story began last year and is still going on today. I hope you listen, because I want you to learn from the mistakes you’re about to read. This is a mistake that should not be repeated.

A year ago in a land not so far away, there was a lady. This lady’s name is Kate. Kate is a responsible lady. She was nearly done paying off her student loans from law school and was starting to get a handle on her finances.

Kate was settling into the working world. This was her first calendar year as a full-time employee. She was looking to take advantage of all her employee benefits. What did she have available?

Some of the choices had easy answers.

  • 401k… Heck yes! Let the saving continue!
  • Transit Card… Yes, please. Not paying for parking AND an extra cheap way to get to work? What a deal!

Then things got a little more detailed.

  • Dental plan… yes, but only the preventative plan. Teeth are important.
  • Health insurance… a must! Sh went with the High Deductible Low Premium plan because she’s a baller.
  • HSA… Oh yes! Like it, love it, gotta have it!

Then things got dicey.

She had the option to sign up for a Limited Purpose FSA (LPFSA). If you aren’t aware, there are a few types of FSAs, which stands for Flexible Spending Account. You can have them for daycare, general medical expenses or in this case, limited purposes. The LPFSA is only good for dental and vision expenses.

FSAs are in addition to any other pre-tax spending accounts. The LPFSA is only available if you are eligible for a Health Savings Account. Kate was eligible for an HSA, so she was eligible to elect the LPFSA.

The identifying feature of an FSA is it’s “Use it or Lose it” feature. The employer essentially advances you money on January 1. The entire amount you elect to pay back over the year is available for your use on that day. Then over the year, you pay the company back with your paychecks. If you don’t use the entire balance you elected to pay back, you lose that money at the end of the year. This money is used to fund the health plan of the company, but it is also used to cover the potential loss when employees elect to use an FSA and the employee leaves the company before the money is paid by the employee. Sneaky little job jumping monkeys.

At the time of enrollment, Kate’s main squeeze Hubs was expecting to get some dental work done in 2015. Kate, being the little saver she is, didn’t want to touch the HSA balance that she was working so hard to build. To keep the HSA account in tact, while still completing the dental work, Kate elected to put $1000 into the LPFSA.

What happened next is where the tale turns sad.. but in a good way? It turned out that Hubs didn’t need any of the dental work he was planning on. He got a new dentist and realized the previous one was a disaster. Over the next two cleanings, he didn’t even have a cavity!

Planning to need dental work and not needing any dental work is an easy way to have a lot of money left over in your LPFSA. Thankfully for Kate and Hubs, the IRS changed their guidelines in recent year about what you have to use or lose. Instead of losing all of it, you can now roll over $500 into the next plan year.

So what does that mean? Of the $1000 set aside, $500 can be rolled over to next year. Of the $500 Kate needs to use or lose, she’s used roughly $260. $120 for 3 treatments of adult fluoride, $9 on super fancy fluoride toothpaste and the rest on Kate’s cavity. That leaves roughly $240 to use or lose.

$240 is a lot to lose. It’s probably not enough for Kate to stress about as much as she has, but it’s still a significant chunk of money. 2015 could be deemed the year of the FSA with all the time she’s spent thinking about it. She still has an opportunity to spend the money. She could use a new mouthguard. This could bring the loss down to zero.

Then she’ll have to go through all of this again next year when she has to use another $500.

Never again will Kate set aside money in an LPFSA. I urge you to use caution as well.

Any questions?

EDIT: This post original said LPFSA can pay for preventative care expenses. This was hopeful and inaccurate. LPFSAs can only be used for dental and vision expenses.